Private Therapy for Those Who Think and Feel Deeply
If you're carrying too much, questioning what others don't, or just want something more serious than self-help or advice—this may be the right place to start. I offer individual therapy for people navigating emotional complexity, identity, and mental overload.
In our sessions, we work with whatever you are struggling with currently, for example:
Depression, struggling to engage in work or day-to-day activities
Loss of meaning, frustration with where your life is going
Anxiety and unpleasant or overwhelming experiences of being who and where you are
Relationships to partners, parents, children or friends that are unfulfilling or not working
Anything else - maybe something yet undefined - that you are struggling with or need somebody to take seriously
My approach combines clinical depth and sociological insight, so we can explore both your inner world and the structures that both enable and limit you. This isn’t about quick fixes. It’s about making space for honesty, self-understanding, and real change.
Who You’ll Be Working With
Ask Foldspang Neve, phd
My name is Ask Foldspang Neve.
I work as a researcher and clinical therapist, and my speciality is the intersection between individual and society. I focus on how emotions are affected by social aspects of our lives like class, gender, and ethnicity.
I hold a PhD in sociology from the University of Oxford, where my research focused on how highly educated women form relationships across ethnic and educational boundaries. Alongside research, I've taught courses on gender, social class, identity, religion and conflict across universities in the UK, Denmark and the US.
I also work as a consultant and analyst, with several years of experience as a manager in AI development. For many professionals I work with, this means that I find it easy to relate to their everyday experience.
My formal, clinical training currently spans three distinct but complementary traditions:
Intensive short-term dynamic psychotherapy (ISTDP) with psychologist Jeanne Isaksen. I am a licensed therapist-in-training with the Danish Society for ISTDP.
Cybernetic psychology and post-Jungian therapy with Ole and Lene Vedfelt at the Vedfelt Institute
Meditative and body-centered techniques with Hannah Jakobsen and Bjørn Winther at Integrativ Udvikling
My therapy style draws from dynamic and emotion-focused approaches, especially ISTDP and Jungian thinking, with additional influence from body-based perspectives. I don’t offer body therapy, but I pay close attention to how emotion shows up in the body, not just in the mind.
I support clients in integrating altered-state or psychedelic experiences, especially where the aim is long-term psychological development. I’m part of a professional network in this field and stay closely engaged with the latest research.
I work in both Danish and English, and many of my clients come from academic, creative, or cross-cultural backgrounds. If you're someone who thinks deeply, feels intensely, or has never quite fit conventional categories—I’ll make this a place where your complexity is welcomed, not pathologized.
How I work
I work at the intersection of dynamic psychotherapy and academic sociology. That is what I term the sociodynamic approach. That means I help people explore not just their emotions, but the deeper patterns, histories, and social structures - like gender patterns, social class, and ethnicity - that shape how they act and feel.
In therapy, we often find that what feels like confusion or stuckness is actually a defense—something that once protected you, but now keeps you from accessing what you really feel.
Together, we begin to notice and name those defenses. And underneath them, we often find emotions that have been pushed aside—grief, anger, longing, fear. When those feelings are finally given space, they begin to move. That’s often where relief comes from—not by pushing feelings away, but by finally letting them be felt.
Integrating class, gender and ethnicity
My work draws on psychodynamic therapy, including Jungian ideas and modern intensive methods like ISTDP.
Some sessions are quiet and reflective. Others are focused and emotionally active. I don’t follow a fixed script—we follow what matters most in the moment.
What sets my approach apart is the integration of serious emotional work with real-world context. I've taught university-level classes on gender, class, and ethnicity, and I’ve lived the realities of being between cultures myself.
That means I understand how emotional life is shaped not just by our families, but by social roles, norms, and histories that often go unnamed in therapy.
Working at Different Depths
I work from a depth-oriented perspective, which means that real change isn’t just about developing new thoughts—it’s about understanding what those thoughts are protecting us from, and what they’re trying to manage underneath.
In our work, we may explore different layers—not in a fixed sequence, but as they emerge in your process:
Patterns in everyday life
People come to therapy with all kinds of needs. Some are looking for insight into how they respond in everyday life—emotionally, relationally, or professionally. That’s a valid entry point, and we may begin there. But if you’ve already tried advice, self-help, or thought-based approaches, you may be looking for something deeper.Biographical and Structural Layer
That deeper work often begins with your personal and emotional history. How your emotional life has been shaped by your primary relationships - for example your parents, your school, and your partners and friends. Crucially, we are able to investigate where feelings of alienation, missing acceptance and rejection stem from. For some this is clearly located in those supposedly closest to us - but for others, it’s more diffuse. That’s where the structural frame becomes helpful. Family roles, early wounds, patterns of shame, social background, class, gender, culture—these don’t just live in memory. They shape how we relate, defend, and limit ourselves.
This is often where the deeper therapeutic work begins.Existential and symbolic themes
From there, some clients move into more existential territory: questions of purpose, identity, transformation. This might involve dreams, archetypal material, inner figures, or symbolic patterns that feel deeply personal but somehow universal. This is the “Jungian” layer: Fundamental human questions about existence, meaning, and mortality. We don’t always need to go to that depth. But if that’s where you feel the pull—I work in a way that makes space for it.
Not everyone wants or needs to work across all these layers. But if you’re someone who senses that there’s more beneath the surface—this kind of work may be what you’ve been looking for.
Practical information
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Most clients work with double sessions (2 × 45 minutes), which allows us to go deeper without rushing. The first session is always a double session.
Single sessions (45 minutes) are available for clients in ongoing work or with specific needs.
Sessions are normally recorded to allow supervision (i.e. where I am supervised by other, senior therapists). Recordings are kept on separate, encrypted physical media. If you are uncomfortable with recording, let me know.
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I offer sessions in-person and online.
In-person sessions are offered at Langelands Plads 2, 2000 Frederiksberg, DK.
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I work fluently in both Danish and English.
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Double session (2 × 45 minutes): 1,400 DKK
Single session (45 minutes): 800 DKK
Payment is via MobilePay 51792 (Sociodynamisk) or via bank transfer (international clients)
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I primarily see clients on weekends and some weekdays after 1800 / 6 pm.
You are welcome to contact me to schedule an introductory session or ask any question. -
Appointments must be cancelled at least 24 hours in advance to avoid being charged in full.